Today is Your Day!

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On October 5, 1951 a queen was born by the name of Paula Michelle Parker.

To most, Paula has been knows as the following:

  • President of Girls State
  • Indianapolis 500 Princess
  • Model for Seventeen Magazine after being selected as one of the top 20 U.S. high school girls in 1969
  • Northwest High School graduate (and subsequent member of the Indianapolis Public Schools Hall of Fame)
  • Indiana University graduate (Bachelor’s and Master’s)
  • Recipient of Honorary Doctorate of Laws from Butler University
  • First female Deputy Mayor for the city of Indianapolis
  • Former City County Councilwoman
  • Philanthropist
  • Director of Indiana’s Office of Faith Based and Community Initiatives
  • Indiana University administrator and professor
  • Member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated

Your other titles:

  • Daughter
  • Sister
  • Wife
  • Grandmother
  • Aunt
  • Friend

To me…..she’s known simply for three letters: MOM!

Happy birthday mom! You have broken the glass ceiling, mentored many, fought (and still fighting) to reduce Indiana’s infant mortality rate, been a shoulder for my tears and stood right by my side during the good and bad times.

Today is YOUR day! You have earned it! ENJOY IT!!!!!!!

I love you!

As always, these are just a few thoughts….”From My Hart.”

I Hope I’m Still Making You Proud

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I haven’t been in the greatest spirits for the last week, and it hit me as to why. This Saturday, August 22, marks nine years since my dad, James Sawyers, earned his wings and went home. He may not have been my biological father, but he was the only father I knew, respected and who raised me from the time I was two years old.

With every passing day, I wish I could have just one more conversation with him…one more heart to heart discussion about career….life…..and yes, men. I will never forget the day I graduated from Alabama A&M University and dad telling me just how proud he was of me. After watching me struggle my Freshman year to flourishing as a news reporter for one of the local radio stations my Senior year, dad took me aside privately before the ceremony and told me I could achieve absolutely anything I put my mind to doing.

For those who lived in Indianapolis in 1978, you probably remember the infamous Blizzard of ’78. Even though I wasn’t even born yet and he and my mother hadn’t met at that point, I have heard story after story about how amazing he was as the Communications Officer for the City of Indianapolis. Little did anyone know I would follow in his footsteps as a public relations beast a few decades later.

The day before you died you called me….just to say one thing. You called to tell me you love me. And while my heart still hurts because you’re gone, I am so grateful those were the last three words you ever spoke to me.

This one’s for you dad. I hope I am continuing to make you proud. I love you, and I always will.

As always, these are just a few thoughts “From My Hart.”

Change is Necessary at IBE

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Dear IBE and Indianapolis Community:

It’s that time of year. The Indiana Black Expo, Inc. (IBE) Summer Celebration has just ended, and it seems everyone is playing “Monday Morning Quarterback” now that the event is over.  Before I begin explaining why I believe change is necessary for IBE, let me first start by talking about why I really do love the institution and the powerful pillar of the community it has been for 45 years.

It’s no secret that I have history with IBE. I have been quite outspoken about it, but my relationship with the organization began much earlier than the short time I served as its Director of Communications and Public Relations. As a child, I was introduced to IBE by way of my mother who once served as Deputy Mayor for the city of Indianapolis not to mention our close personal relationship with Rev. Charles Williams’ family. I attended private school for the majority of my school-aged years and appreciated attending the IBE-sponsored events to learn about my culture and so much more. Because of IBE’s Circle City Classic, I was introduced to Historically Black Colleges and Universities. Because of IBE’s Circle City Classic, I attended and graduated from Alabama A&M University (Go Bulldogs). I would not be who I am today if it hadn’t been because of the time I spent at Alabama A&M and thus IBE. My point? I will always have love for the institution that is IBE. It is an organization with so much potential, especially in these tough times we are currently experiencing.

Now…the real reason for this blog.

IBE is currently on life support, and I can hear the monitor slowing down even here in my home in Memphis, TN. Volunteers are few and far between (thank goodness for those who are still on board). Sponsors have been significantly reduced (remember the days when events such as the Free Concert were actually sponsored by a major company?). As someone said the other day, bridges have been so badly burned that many folks ran for the hills and those still around are hanging on by a thread. While word on the street is Sunday’s attendance in the Indiana Convention Center was significantly more than the previous days, what does that really say when photos from Saturday practically show tumbleweeds through the exhibition halls and downtown streets? Let’s not forget Sunday was absolutely free. If you can’t convince people to attend a free event, what does that say?

I believe IBE needs to hit Control+ALT+Delete. It needs a complete overhaul. With all due respect to the current IBE board members, it’s time for new blood, new faces, new ideas…..ones who more accurately represent the Indianapolis community and not just individuals who have deep pockets or political influence. Of course the biggest change needs to begin with the top. It is past time for Tanya Bell to be replaced as the CEO. For those who follow me on social media sites, I have likened the situation to a basketball and football coach. When they are no longer “winning,” a change of the guard is necessary.

IBE has lost touch with the Indianapolis community. So many have lost respect for the organization. So many suggestions have been given over the last several years and seem to fall on deaf ears. Change is necessary to grow. For example, DJ Kid Capri is a legend, but there are so many other great ones, many of which live right there in Indianapolis with a significant following…such as DJ Kenny Kixx, DJ Metrognome, DJ Limelight, DJ Skrill, DJ JF and so many more. The young professionals are the new generation of leaders and have launched very successful campaigns. Yet, I have heard from more than one of those leaders that their ideas have been dismissed.

Oh, let me also throw in this other suggestion. Social media is the new means of disseminating information. First of all, do not only post on social media when talking about buying tickets. When I was the Director of Communications, I posted a black history fact every single day. It was so popular I would receive emails on days when it wasn’t posted by 3:00 p.m. Partner with other organizations in Indianapolis. You can share their events and promote what they do. Surely the Indianapolis Urban League, Madame Walker Theater and many others would appreciate the support. Speaking of social media, it was listed on all the promotional materials yet I saw (from here in Memphis) the frustration from individuals who didn’t hear about the free concert being cancelled directly from IBE on social media.

Now, let me be very frank. Y’all (yes, that’s the Memphis in me now) can miss me with all the “Positive Rosy” comments about how things are better and folks are working together to make sure IBE doesn’t die. I have been privy to many offline conversations where individuals have expressed their frustration. I heard a comment on the Afternoons with Amos show on AM 1310 that made me literally laugh out loud. The caller was telling the listeners they need to volunteer and pay dues to the local IBE chapter. NEWS FLASH! No one will actually volunteer and give their hard earned money only to see the same results.

You want to save IBE? I know I do. It’s time for the Indianapolis community to band together and demand changes. I don’t mean just suggest them. The list of Board of Directors is on the IBE website (www.indianablackexpo.com). Not sure how accurate it is, but a simple phone call could confirm that. Look them up. Find out who they are. A simple Google search would give you their addresses. Tell them your demands. Tell them what you want to see changed.

We can’t keep having this same conversation every single year.  Change is necessary. The time is now. In 365 days, I don’t want to have to write a blog about how IBE no longer exists.

As always, these are just a few thoughts “From My Hart.”